ETIQUETTE

Learn how to secure your place in My World.

  • When you’re ready, kneel with your wallet. If not, watch in silence like the rest.

    Wait. Listen. Obey only when commanded. If you're unsure, ask. Silence is no excuse for failure.

    Cash gratitude is always appreciated as a daily offering. Bonus points if My tribute is given in tasteful stationary and a intentional handwritten note.

    For your attire: A polished, well-dressed appearance heightens the deviant in Me.

  • I value a submissive that is:

    • Curious

    • Adept communicator

    • Respectful of My time and privacy

    • Reflective instead of reactive

    • Strives to improve so they will be at their very best to serve Me wholeheartedly.

    A dedicated service submissive is My most adored.

  • Craving multiple minds for an array of sensations and mind-fuckery?

    Below is a short list of Craftmakers that I enjoy playing with.

    • Domina Ai is an SF based tender sadist and formidable tease. She luxuriates in orchestrating meticulously crafted scenes that are connective and deeply liberating. Bondage, humiliation, electro, and medfet subs rejoice. To kneel before Her is to discover freedom as Her captive.

    • Demoness Echo Veil is a NYC based fever dream deviant. Cross behind the veil with this surreal sadistic siren. All things rubber, leather, clinical, dental and enclosure. Demure ego degradation to the hum of haptic hypnosis.

    • Lady Eden Mei is a NYC Dominatrix who specializes in psychological domination, hypnosis, shibari, and chastity. She particularly enjoys transformative scenes that re-program submissives’ behavioral patterns.

    • Mistress Echo Red is a NYC Dominatrix who blends Her extensive knowledge and curiosity of the brain, body, and kink. As a former PhD trained neuroscientist, experimentation on flesh and psyche are integral to Her methods of play. Some of Her favorites include tease & denial, needles and medical fetish, bondage and sensational play, feminization, and objectification.

    • Mistress Lilith Eden is a NYC Dominatrix who is exceptionally skilled in psychological dominance and power exchange. She is highly cerebral and intelligent and will always bring to light your unspoken desires. Some of Her favorite scenes include sensual domination, humiliation, high protocol and positional training, and tease and denial.

    • Mistrix Sade is a NYC based otherworldly Dominatrix with a penchant for rogue laboratory experiments, creative psychodrama and utilizing BDSM and fetishism as venues for exploring states of trance and catharsis.

    • Mistress Undine is a SF based Dominatrix that revels in exploring the borderlands that exist at the intersection of fear and desire. The objective: to be the body to Her heart’s content. Her preferred means: heavy bondage, creative role-play, devotional worship, and psychosexual mind games.

    • FOOD:

      I have a deep love for seafood, especially raw delights like oysters. I'm drawn to soups from all cultures. I’m a true connoisseur of tea, and have a fondness for sweets. Japanese strawberry shortcake is one of My absolute favorites, along with any pastry with figs, mango, peaches, and dates.

      I'm an adventurous eater, so go ahead, surprise Me.

      Dietary note: I usually avoid dairy, but I might make an exception for the right dessert.

    • ACTIVITIES:

      I love traveling the world, especially to charming seaside towns. Luxurious spas, auction houses, and museums always catch My interest. I enjoy hikes, observing wildlife, and engaging deeply with the land, as well as wandering through beautiful gardens.

      You'll often find Me immersed in the arts—watching theater, cinema, and dance performances—or exploring new crafts and materials with hands-on curiosity. I also have a passion for research, often visiting special archives to support My extensive studies.

    • BOOKS:

      Magical realism, fiction, theory, spirituality, narrative journalism, political history, queer theory, autobiographies, psychological, design, science, cinema, surrealism, eroticism, sci-fi, poetry, and the occult.

      Books that are banned are the most desired in My collection.

    • FILMS:

      Art house, erotic, horror, psychological/thriller, exploitation, drama, slice-of-life, and experimental.

    • MOVEMENT:

      Martial arts, swimming, gymnastics, acrobatics, and dance (contemporary and ballet).

    • WATER:

      Hot springs, rain showers, sun showers, rivers, puddles, waterfalls, oceans, lakes, fountains, sparkling water, hot water, marine life, acqueducts, spring water, mountain water, mist, water towers, pools, water clocks, fog, snow, blizzards, marsh lands, thunder storms, water births, water burials, water rituals, beaches, fen, bog, seas, swamps, rain forests, and water transportation.

  • Please do not buy Me any gifts without My guidance. Everything that I want will either be personally suggested or on My wishlists. Do not deviate. When in doubt cash gifts are always appreciated and will always please Me.

    • BOOKS:

      As an avid researcher I collect rare art books. Books and printed materials have always been valuable possesions I cherish in My life. I am currently growing My Art Erotica library.

    • CLOTHING & GEAR:

      Fashion has always been one of My deepest indulgences, for as long as I can remember. I curate wish lists filled with pieces from brands I value for their design, comfort, quality, and versatility—essentials that become staples in My everyday wardrobe.

      I'm also a collector of fine leather garments and high-quality BDSM gear. Certain thrifted treasures have a way of calling out to Me.

      When I want something, you’ll be the one to get it for Me.

    • EXPERIENCE:

      I’m a traveler at heart, always seeking to immerse Myself in different cultures and deepen My understanding of art, history, and beauty across the world. To support My journeys, I’ve curated special packages on My Throne page where you can contribute to My next vacation.

      I’m especially drawn to water. Luxurious spas are a place of serenity and pleasure that I constantly yearn for.

      As of 2025, I’ve also been enjoying having devoted clients sponsor classes for Me to explore new hobbies and develop new skills. Your support not only pleases Me, it fuels My growth.

      Inquire within or check My Throne page.

  • I love My community and I strive for those that serve Me to show their Devotion to the spaces and people I love. Below are organizations that are close to My heart.

    • Red Canary Song is a grassroots collective of migrant massage workers, sex workers, and allies of the Asian diaspora, base building in Flushing, NYC and organizing transnationally.

    • Kids for Kids is a Youth Empowerment and Charity Organization that aims to inspire and educate a legacy of peacemakers, worldshapers, and changmakers. It is composed of volunteers and project teams that keep ensure the organization continues to catalyze positive perspectives and actions in our world.

    • Trans Santa is a mutual aid project that connects anonymous gift-givers with trans youth who are unhoused, in foster care, or otherwise without crucial support they need to thrive.

    • Black Lives Matter Foundation is an abolition-centered foundation fighting institutional injustice and serving Black people globally. They fund organizations and individuals leading policy and abolitionist efforts and partner with organizations and individuals who offer direct services to support the needs of Black communities.

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